Right, so now I’ve hopefully got you smiling more…..it’s time to be really present.
What do I mean by that? When you ask someone ‘how are you?’ Stop, look in their eyes and mean it as a genuine question, not just a throw away line.
As humans we base our thoughts on a few things in a certain order.
1. Body language.
2. Eye contact.
3. And smile.
This happens in a split second…..only then do we form our first impression of someone. So as you can see, we don’t have long to get it right.
In certain situations it can be a deal breaker.
Too many people worry what others think of them. If you do these things right and they still don’t like you, it’s their problem and not yours.
So follow 1,2 & 3…… Be real with you intentions.
It may take some practice, but it WILL be worth it in the long run.
I’d love you to take the time to leave me a comment and let me know how you’re doing.
You are one……
You cannot and will not be able to please everyone, nor you should.
Treat everyone you interact with how you wish to be treated. Some will return in kind, some will not. That is up to them and out of your control.
Not everyone will react well to your energy but as long as you keep it simple, kind and honest you are heading in the right direction.
So take a deep breath and relax. Fill your mind with positive thoughts and give that to the world. Along with a smile 😊
You can only control what you think and how you behave. For those that are in need of making changes, make them for you!! You will never be truly happy if you are changing just to please others. To be truly happy, it starts from within, stay true to yourself.